This was a dating blog that has turned into a life blog. I found the man I love while dating and will now see what happens in life.

Friday, April 9, 2010


As some of you may notice, the posting date on this and the previous blog entry are the same. The previous was written the day after the date but with the beauty of technology, I couldn't get it posted. So here is the update as of today....
Adorable and I talked via phone and texts the following we have done for the past almost two weeks...morning, afternoon and night. So I was thoroughly confused when I got up yesterday morning and sent him a good morning text and got no response. Not trying to be that girl, I tried to not think anything of it. Lunch came and went and no word. Then bedtime and still nothing. I'll admit, I was a little bummed. Why all the sudden had he decided not to talk to me?
I woke up this morning and didn't dare text or call. I was just going to accept the fact that he moved on. Sucked, but I thought that was the way it was. I decided to take myself out to lunch. As I was finishing up and paying my tab, guess who walked in. Yup, you guessed it, Adorable. His response to seeing me was "Oh! Hi." I said hi and was just as shocked to see him. There was no hug, no little peck. He came and stood beside me. (Looking back now, I think he came beside me expecting me to hug him and I didn't get up.) He said he was there to eat with friends, both girls I had met the other night when we went out to the wine bar. I was trying so hard to play the cool card. After some awkward conversation he asked what I was doing this weekend. Long story short, he asked if we could hang out on Sunday. I looked at him and said "I think it would be fun to hang out with you because I thought we were getting along but if you are asking me out as an 'Oh, shit I didn't know I was going to see her' kind of way I don't think it will be a good idea." He asked me why I would say that. My response was because I hadn't heard from him in a day and half. He said he had no reason to not call he just didn't. I told him I would go out with him then. We parted with no hug or anything.
On my way back to work I was thinking about the situation. I couldn't get over it. I text him and asked him if he thought I was harsh. He said no and that he thought it was refreshing to hear that kind of honesty. I told him I wasn't used to not hearing from a guy who I thought was interested in me. He told me I had heard from him, just not yesterday. I played it off like I was being silly and kind of high maintenance. He simply laughed.
My question to my few readers is this: Am I being silly and seemingly high maintenance? I like the thought of him. Was I acting like a stupid girl or do I have a legitimate reason for feeling like I deserved a phone call or text yesterday and/or this morning? Ugh.


Blogger suburban hippie mama said...

it's a tough call. you know in the book "he's just not into you"?? well he says if a guy likes you he will persue YOU...and texting doesn't count.

just try not to jump the gun, let things happen naturally and see what deserve the world...xoxo

April 11, 2010 at 7:05 AM


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